Melina Lezcano spoke with an open heart we are in athe República Zeta cycle leading is next door Cris Vanadia, Juani Velcoff Andino and Martu Morales, and for the first time He told of a sexual abuse he suffered in his childhood.
The former leader of lovebirds he opened up to his colleagues and recalled the difficult event that marked his life. The singer explained that although she told her grandmother about her, he received no support and that he was encouraged to tell his mother about it several years after the fact, when he was already 18 or 19.
“I was abused by my relative when I was a girl”began by saying the singer and influencers. And she continued: “I told my grandmother earlier, but at that moment she could not see it. My grandmother told me: ‘No, it’s fine, it’s fine’. So I didn’t go and tell my mom at the time and I was only able to tell her when I was 18, 19.”
In turn, Melina acknowledged feeling that her mother didn’t understand her: “It also distressed me a lot because I felt like my mother didn’t believe me, whenever we talked about it we couldn’t talk about it.”
“Until one day, when I could really see that he had been abused, I told him: ‘What, but, this subject that I am speaking to you distresses me a lot and that you cannot understand or say: daughter, how did you feel? I’m sorry for not being there’”told.
Lezcano said she was able to heal over time and with therapy and that she was able to forgive her parents: “That’s how we worked through it together in therapy, the two of us. and I understood it It is also very difficult for a mother to accept that a daughter has been abused because it’s ‘How could I not protect you? How could I do nothing to make that happen to you? How did I not see it?'”
“As I understood that my parents are human beings, I also began to understand their tools, why it happened and they did what they could, Those were the tools they had at the time.”held.
Also, the artist talked about how things were different at the time regarding these issues: “But you know what happens? in our generation we talk about these problems, in my day it was ‘no, be careful, we’ll destroy the family’, ‘I mean, I’m going to tell this and let’s destroy the family, do you understand?’, this was my grandmother’s thought”.
“In my case it was extremely important to be able to heal it with my mother.. Not everyone can sit and talk to the mother without pants, as they say, you can live and see these situations of constant struggle when you can’t cure your parents, really, is to understand them, when we knock them down, ”condemned.
Fully mobilized, a few hours after her statements, Melina shared a video on her Instagram account, where she has more than 600,000 followers.
There she thanked the support she received after recounting her traumatic experience and shared a little more about how she went through that painful process.
“Oh. I’m mobilized by all the messages I get, by all the comments,” the singer said.
Immediately afterwards, he thanked for the messages received following his statements: “First I want to thank you because I know that sometimes I touch on very strong topics and I speak from a place that took me a long time to be able to talk like that and that you receive it the way you are receiving it.”
“On the other hand, I’m not a guru of anything, I’m not a psychologist, I’m nothing. I speak from my own experience and what has worked for me. How I coped with everything that happened to me” Melina said.
And convicted: “I thought it was cool to be able to share that, and I wasn’t confused because there are a lot of girls, boys, who have been through this and don’t know how to talk about it or what happened to them that their parents didn’t believe it.”
Source: Clarin
