Singer Lourdes Fernández, member of Bandana, used his social media to leave a testimony that worried his followers. “This is what my people do to me, because I’m an alcoholic and I’m in pain.“, she denounced in anguish.
“Why they are taking care of me, so apparently you have to do yourself a favor,” added Lourdes, through tears, while it showed blows to the chest and left hand.
After hours, he deleted that story, but left another one with a written message assuring: “I’m back to abuse, nothing is by chance”. In that publication, she overwhelmed her sister, Anita Fernández, by insinuating that she had hit her.
It should be clarified that the reference to his “return” to physical violence refers to the complaint he made to his ex-partner for gender violence when he uploaded a photo with his bruised face.
The answer of the sister of Lourdes de Bandana
For his part, Lowrdez’s sister (this is her stage name) has decided not to remain silent in the face of these accusations and answered the singer Bandana. “Um, It’s never too late to change the course of your life“, was the advice he left him regarding the serious accusation against him.
Also shared two more messages from other Instagram accounts. In one she said: “Affective responsibility is taking into account the emotional world of the other person knowing that he can be very different from yours”.
While the other, this time on a black background, is a sentence from the writer, Gisela Gilges, in which she says: “There are moments that are for sharing. There are moments that need to heal. There are moments you need to dream. And there are moments that have to try. Respect your time”.
Like her sister Lourdes, Anita uploaded a video with a disclaimer which she later deleted. In it, she explained, “Take ten thousand and one. I don’t know how to do it, but I’m getting a lot of messages.”
Then, regarding the complaint that fell on her, she specified: “Well, I didn’t hit Lourdes, she’s in bad shape as you can seeYou try to help her, to control her, but you can’t be everything, nor can you be 100% because it’s impossible.”
As for the steps she and her family will take to resolve this situation, Anita announced: “We are trying to help, we will talk to his therapists tomorrow.”.
And he also left a message for the artist’s inner circle: “Thanks to the girls, their friends, who immediately contacted me, gave me good vibes and support.”
Towards the end, he gave it a try bring peace of mind regarding the intentions of those around the Bandana member: “We all want to see it well and I think that’s the most important thing.”
Lourdes and its history of violence
In November 2022, Bandana member Lourdes Fernández surprised the share a photo of yourself with a completely bruised face and denounced that she was a victim of gender-based violence by her then-partner.
“If it happens, report it, Do not be afraid‘ the singer wrote on the shocking, all-caps image.
And he added on who will be his partner for two years: “He filmed me without my knowledge. He took pictures of me naked without my consent. Or because I got drunk…He put things in my drink and I was always apologizing.”
“Love is the absolute lack of suffering. Love doesn’t hurt”, At the time, the artist reflected on their relationship and ties.
Source: Clarin
