She found out her husband was homosexual, told it and it went viral: “I never suspected it”

Infidelity in the couple is one of the reasons that causes more divorces in marital relationships, they are situations which, with few exceptions, foresee a before and an after in relationships.

Recounting these situations in public as did the Mexican, born in Sinaloa, Marisela Ruíz on social networks is usually not so common.

The woman who found out her husband was gay after 9 years of marriage

Marisela Ruiz said in the TikTok video that, After nearly a decade of marriage, she discovered that she’d spent most of her life immersed in a series of lies. In one of the many twists with his partner’s justifications, one night he decided to do something unexpected that would end up putting a truth he never imagined first.

Ruiz, said that, after nine years of a love affair, her husband was cheating on her, but with a man. The story quickly went viral for the condiments it contained.

In three clips, she opened up about the things that have forever changed the way she views a relationship. Something that, according to her, she will “never forget”.

The woman who lives in the state of Sinaloa shared the anecdote in which she explains that she never realized that her partner was gay and that she did not even give any indication that he had a sexual orientation.

“I never suspected, there was never any indication that he told me’looks gay‘, In retrospect, maybe there were little things that made me realize he was a little gay, but I didn’t look at that at the time,” she said.

Marisela explained that her husband was not effeminate, nor did he have actions that could reveal that he liked men. However, he recalled that he really enjoyed fixing his wife.

The first indications of her husband’s homosexuality​

“When he painted my hair, he said: love I’ll help you put the dye. And I said yes, but I took it as something of a couple, after which he told me that if he helped me dry my hair and from there I wanted to curl it, and the truth was that it didn’t look bad,” said Ruiz .

The woman said they had two daughters and when they were six and eight, she realized her husband was homosexual after she noticed he spent more time at work and came home very late.

“It was hard for me to believe that he was unfaithful to me, because it never stopped be attentive to me, and it wasn’t like that, it was the other way around and I feel that because of the guilt I felt, he was more attentive to me“said the woman in the video.

The moment her husband was discovered

Marisela said she decided to go to the restaurant where her husband worked to see if he was working overtime doing work assignments.

“I went to her work and saw that she is dating one of the male employees, it happened in my mind that they were going to go for a drink with a few beers, but it never crossed my mind that anything was going on between them; It turns out that I follow them to a hotel and they park, and I decided to rent a room closer to them, and to my misfortune I begin to feel everything, our sex life was not passionate, but it was not the worst, but at that time I met the most passionate man in the world I’ve ever met.”

He added that, after listening to it, he confronted his partner in the hotel room: “eAt that moment my life was destroyed because for me I had the ideal man, I was very much in love with him, Of course I went to my room, kicked down the door, grabbed him, he got down on one knee and said sorry, I had to go to therapy, I hated him for so long.”

Despite everything, «today we are fine and after a long time I was already laughing about this», concluded Marisela.