No one chooses who or what to fall in love with. It is something that either happens or doesn’t happen. This is only part of the charm of love; and what makes it inexplicable and irrational. Especially the latter. Nothing new under the sun.
There are no known limits to any of this. Be that as it may, the truth is this the love story of a British woman and a ghost of a soldier killed nearly 100 years ago falls under the above. In love, nothing is predictable.
The woman’s name is Brocarde and she is a 38-year-old artist who, against all odds, managed to marry his “better half”: A spirit named Edwardo, a Victorian-era soldier who died at the age of 35 after falling down a well.
The duo communicate through unique methodswith Edwardo sending cryptic messages in the shower or displaying his emotions by “sending hot and cold sensations” through Brocarde’s body.
a ghostly love
According to what he said, it all started one stormy night during which he had trouble sleeping. “I was lying in bed unable to sleep. I was rolling from side to side trying to wind up both the storm and an argument that I had with one of my friends,” she said.
“Then out of nowhere I felt a hot feeling in my heart, it was on fire,” she added; and she continued, “I touched my chest and it was warm, almost wet, and the feeling went through my whole body“.
“Then the whole room went cold. I sat up very straight, tears streaming down my face and I was shaking almost uncontrollably. It felt like someone was present. I couldn’t see a thing, so I grabbed the bedside light and something grabbed my hand to stop me.”
“I heard an ‘I love you’ whispered in my ear and I heard someone breathingand a shiver ran down my spine. It was like that when Edwardo first showed up,” she explained.
Since then, Edward he visited Brocarde regularly, showing up whenever he feels he needs to. And their love grew as time went on.
Though, of course, sometimes some of those things that happen when someone marries a ghost exasperate her. “What really worries me is that I pay the bill for all appointments but for him it’s a cheap appointment, since he doesn’t eat or drink in public,” he revealed.
But love outweighs those little quirks. “I asked Edwardo to take me on a night of passion, but He promised me that he will always be by my side wherever I go.”
“There’s a comfort and security that I feel in his presence, like I can truly be myself and it touched me deeply“, She said
And sex, he confessed, is “wonderful.” “Our intimate moments are very powerful: gives chilling orgasms“. The woman, originally from Oxfordshire, argued, adding that she had long kept the relationship private with family and friends out of fear of him. be exorcised.
A marriage that cost but in the end it happened
And as is often the case when a couple isn’t “conventional,” the couple had to face strong opposition when she announced they wanted to get married. And apparently her temper didn’t help either.
“I swear he’s become a complete groomzilla (a fusion of the words groom (groom) and Godzilla (huge crazed mutant dinosaur)). and his list of requests is growing day by day,” he said, adding, “Edwardo has always had a temperamental nature, but the wedding seems to bring out the worst in him.”
Regarding the ceremony, the woman explained that many churches refused to marry them because they told her their marriage was ‘blasphemous’. “They expelled us from many churches and also they threatened us with exorcism“, to remember.
“I think there’s a little problem with religion and life after death. Not all priests believe,’ she told ITV’s This Morning, adding that all she wanted was a ‘big white wedding’ with her loved ones, but ‘a lot of people fail to see’.
Eventually they found a church that married them, but asked him not to reveal the location for fear of retaliation. “I’ve had ‘fascinating’ discussions about religion and the paranormal with priests, but I think the church they cannot publicly endorse their beliefs.”
And the party was in full swing, with super fancy guests, including the ghosts of Marilyn Monroe, Elvis, William Shakespeare, Henry VIII and Johnny Cash.
Not everything is rosy
Of course, being married to a ghost is also a risk, and she knows it. Indeed, He admitted he has his own concerns.
“My biggest fear is that he expected too much of me and he killed metherefore I too am a spirit,” the woman ruled.
“I love to be alive, so deep down I know our romance is only fleeting. I’m just waiting for the day when she blows out the candle forever and make me a ghost permanently“, He added.
However, Brocarde hopes other people can too. find love in the spirit world like she did. “I think people need to be open-minded. Physical presence in the traditional sense isn’t necessarily all that it seems.”
“Many mortals have relationships they aren’t really in, and many love those they can’t be with. It’s a little hard to understand, but maybe some souls never really get on, and maybe there are ghosts trapped in the afterlife in need of love and affection just like living human beings.”
Source: Clarin
Mark Jones is a world traveler and journalist for News Rebeat. With a curious mind and a love of adventure, Mark brings a unique perspective to the latest global events and provides in-depth and thought-provoking coverage of the world at large.