Two couples from the United States met, first physically and — after knowing each other for a while — also emotionally. There are four of them and they fell in love. They live together in the same house, have two bedrooms, raise their families together, swap heterosexual partners and they turned it into a polyamorous relationship.
Alysia and Tyler Rogers they were already parents to two boys, now aged 7 and 8, when they embarked on a romantic relationship with married friends Sean and Taya Hartless.
Since 2020, the couples have moved in together as a polyamorous foursome, and the following year, Alysia and Taya gave birth to babies seven months apart.
None of the women know who the biological father of the children was.and Alysia claims they’ll help kids find out in the future if they ever want to, as she reveals The mail, take reports of today. com.
“We wanted to do everything we could to make sure everyone felt like au pair parents,” Taya said.
The four live as a big family in the same house with their children, and they also change partners every night.
“We didn’t intend to fall in love…but here we are,” explained on Instagram one member of the quartet, whose account is @polyfamory online. “When we met, we were just looking for something simple and physical, but when we met, we started falling in love.”
The family of eight now live in Lebanon and have a huge following on social media, regularly sharing videos documenting how the unusual indoor setup works.
In one clip, the men explained that they switch beds every other night they have no relationship to each otheronly with women, I count The mail.
The polyamorous group has found a way to frame the relationship: they call it “closed quadricycle polyphiliac”, meaning that “they usually don’t go on dates other than the four of them”describing its dynamics as “literally a square”.
The sharing house has two main bedrooms and the men switch from room to room every night or every other day.
Of course, his story told on social media has provoked the opinion of followers, who have debated the polyamorous model between “confused” and “ideal”.
“In the beginning, before establishing trust, we had some problems with jealousy in troubled times,” an Instagram post explained.
And they tell how difficult it is sometimes to deal with it. “But now it’s all on the ground to support that person. We’re four different people with four different strengths when it comes to meeting needs,” they say.
With 120,000 followers on TikTok and another 30,000 on Instagram, the four admit to frequently making mean comments about their unconventional relationship. They doubt they are “bad parents,” even though Tyler and Alysia’s two children seem quite comfortable with the change in their family dynamic.
“Our kids already knew we were dating Sean and TayaAlysia said today. com. “We told them, ‘You know mom has a boyfriend and dad has a girlfriend and we’re going to move in together. And we will all be one big family and they will help raise you. So we’re going to need you to treat them like you treat us, as parents.”
“Many people don’t really understand polyamory and think it’s deviant or harmful in some way. It’s true that it wasn’t always easy, it took me a while to admit that I had feelings for someone else, and sometimes we get downright jealous,” Taya said.
“But now it’s so natural for all of us and I feel so grateful that I have multiple partners to raise my kids with,” she said. “Why wouldn’t you want more love and support and more hands around? It’s a messy, hectic, crazy, wonderful life and I can’t think of anything else we could possibly want.”
Like all relationships, Taya said navigating an unconventional relationship can be a difficult process, but it’s worth it.
“I don’t think we will ever stop learning and we know our relationship will change constantly. But we’re going to go ahead and make it work,” Taya said. And she says she’s made it clear to kids that they can be whoever they want to be.
In this love story, two plus two equals four.
Source: Clarin
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