“Every couple is a world”. The phrase comes out instantly when you know that the relationship may be in crisis. Of course, there are all kinds of problems, but some people’s problems are much more difficult to solve than others.
An article from the site mirror of England realize that a man is convinced he is allergic to his girlfriend why does he keep getting itchy red rashes when he is around her.
The story stopped when she turned to Reddit, the platform that serves as a forum for social content. She, who is 36, wrote to ask for advice on how to cope. The forum replies were mostly random: They tell you to leave the relationship.
The couple have spent thousands of dollars on specialists and run countless allergy tests, but are still baffled as the results show she’s not hypersensitive to anything.
She works as a hairdresser and, in trying to solve her partner’s problem, she had to stop using hair products, wearing makeup and perfume, and even changing her toothpaste and cleaning products to eliminate the possible causes of the allergy.
On Reddit she recalled that her boyfriend started getting painful and uncomfortable hives on his face a few months after dating.
“Over the last year, when he was convinced it was something from me that was giving him an outbreak (the hives lasted a few weeks), we broke up many, many times,” she recalls how complicated the relationship is for him.
“Then I’d erase what I thought was, and we’d start talking again.” But her boyfriend still blames her for her outbursts and has stopped talking to her altogether, leaving her completely shocked and confused.
“I’ve changed my laundry soap, my brand of cigarettes, completely eliminated all hair products and makeup (very, very difficult to do because I’m a hairdresser), stopped wearing perfume, no candles, even switched to a fluoride-free toothpaste.” she wrote. And she said that every time he had an outburst, he became a paranoid and angry kid.
“After countless allergy tests and thousands of dollars spent with specialists, we still don’t have answers as to what’s causing this,” she explained.
“He hasn’t turned up being allergic to ANYTHING…not even with patch tests. I honestly think we removed the allergen because the latest ‘reactions’ haven’t followed the same pattern,” he commented on Reddit.
The problem, to which they have not found a solution, resulted in her boyfriend saying “I can’t take it anymore” and blocking her number.
“I’ve sacrificed so much to make sure her reaction doesn’t come back… I still don’t wear any makeup or hair products,” she concluded.
“Once I broke up/dumped my ex, everything magically disappeared. I’ve also spent thousands of dollars on allergy testing.”
But when she commented on her story on the forum, some Reddit users discovered one detail through her previous posts that didn’t go unnoticed: she she admitted to cheating on her boyfriendand they let him know that this was the main problem.
“You cheated on him. And does he get hives every time he’s with you? The timing isn’t random,” said another. “Obviously he’s incapable of getting over it. Stay away.”
Another person added, “As an outside observer, I see a guy who wants to end things and he’s found an excuse.”
The post received a huge amount of response and support, with many people suggesting the cause of their boyfriend’s breakouts.
“Stress can cause hives. Has that been considered?” one person said, while another agreed: “My thoughts? She wasn’t happy with the relationship and she was getting stressed about staying in it.”
“I’m sorry, but it seems the relationship has problems far beyond allergic reactions.”
A third shared their experience: “I had ‘chronic hives’ which lasted for about seven months nonstop, always present. When I was stressed, it intensified more.
“Once I broke up/dumped my ex, everything magically disappeared. I’ve also spent thousands of dollars on allergy testing.”
Source: Clarin
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