He was born with gods in the giants in his face and lived through hell: he tells his story of overcoming

Prabhulal Prasannan He is a young student who has always been the center of attention wherever he was. Their face covered for 80% of moles made him a unique person in Kerala, his hometown in India. The adults whispered as they passed and the children were frightened. And he suffered cruelty like few others.

When Prabhulal started school, he would sit alone at lunchtime because other children had done so fear of his appearance and teased him relentlessly.

He also says he was once followed by a group of kids while he was at a science fair. They harassed him and kept asking him why he did it “Face of excrement”. He also added to the bullying that some teachers also preferred to stay away.

“They told me that when I was born, outside the hospital it was full of people who wanted to see the ‘different baby’. Maybe I’ve always been a celebrity, “he says today with a smile on 24 years.

Hostile school and university

“During my childhood and adolescence, I went through many heartbreaking experiences. In class I had to sit alone on a bench with no one around. The other children were afraid to sit next to me and I had to be alone when everyone else was playing together, ”she says.

It also reveals another moment of extreme discomfort: when he got on the bus to go to school, he panicked at the possibility of being intimidated.

The constant fear of being laughed at led Prabhulal to live in a world of relative isolation. He withdrew from his few friends and social life and encouraged himself to do so asking God why he was born this way.

“Whenever I went to the temple for a party, wedding or any public event, I expected ridicule from people,” he admits.

When he finished school he went to university with the idea that things would be different there. He imagined that older young people would behave differently, but it wasn’t like that and they were running away from him from his first day.

He thought he was ending his life but he’s gone

The pain and anger had become so deep that Prabhulal even thought about it end his life. “My urge is destroying my dreams to study, find a good job, support my family, travel, inspire others and help those in need,” she had thought at worst.

“I was wrong to think that society would change its mind about me when I grew up. I understood misconceptions don’t change by themselves and that we need to make that change”, He maintained and disseminated meter.

Prabhulal found that he could not change the views and opinions of others, but his own. It was when he decided that he would no longer hide his face or be ashamed of who he was.

Posting photos of himself and his birthmarks on social media for the first time in 2017, Prabhulal soon received dozens of comments from strangers saying it was a source of inspiration.

“I decided that I would no longer hide my face. And that although I look different, I am able to make my dreams come true,” she says.

moles and surgery

Over time the moles on Prabhulal’s face stopped growing and he considered having them surgically removed.

But beyond the hope of change, doctors warned him the significant risk of surgery to remove them, especially those on the right side.

But Prabhulal’s change in attitude had a direct impact on his mood. And you understand that people’s beauty comes from within.

“We have to decide how others will see us, so I decided to do it with pride. My black moles are my identity. I learned to accept them and to realize that I am unique in this world “.

And he closes with optimism: “Whoever made fun of me today speaks of me with pride” –