One of the topics of the day interfering (America, Monday through Friday at 1:30 pm) deals with the accident Federico Bal suffered in Brazil, his recovery, and the role of Carmen Barbieri as a mother.
In this context, and on returning from a report, Flor de la Ve stood up to narrate the emotion it generated in him. Imagine yourself living in a similar situation with one of your children.
“Something pretty particular happened to me as I listened to Federico speak. At times when a tragedy like what happened to him happens to you, you become vulnerable. And I thought about how the moment he met the his mother, because mothers have a very special relationship with our children“
Florencia de la Ve remembers the moments of raising her children. Instagram.
“I would like to take this opportunity to tell you something: I started the motherhood project eleven years ago, because when I was young I had no maternal instinct. But eleven years ago, I felt that in space there was a creature for me, waiting for me. That he expects me to raise him, hug him, sing him lullabies ”, he surprised his classmates.
And he continued his emotional monologue: “Later, Over time, I learned that there were two creatures. Two creatures were waiting for me and chose me as their mother. And the truth is, with each passing day, I realize that the universe made these two creatures fall into my hands.
“Since they were born, that I raised Isabella and Paul for the first time, there has been a bond, a bond that has come together, that is indescribable in words, that has to do with that bond is sacred“, He added.
“Every day since then they have been teaching me. I say that motherhood has peaks of happiness. Like that moment they look you in the eye as you give them a bottle, when they call you mom, when they walk by, or when they write their name for the first time.
“For me, with my kids in particular, I always experience situations of great happiness. I want to tell you that nothing beats the love I feel for you. And that’s it Every day I am thankful that Paul and Isabella are in my life.because they changed it forever, “he concluded.
Uncomfortable at school for being a trans mom
A few weeks ago, the Intruders host took the opportunity to say how she felt at a parents ’meeting at her children’s school.
Flor de la Ve recounted her experience at a parents ’meeting. Instagram.
“As far as I can remember, one word was spinning in my head: normal. What is normal? What should make a man ‘normal’? And a woman? What reason exists to determine that light blue is the ‘natural’ choice for men and pink for women?“, he asked himself, in one of his usual columns he publishes Page 12.
“Last week I had the school’s first parents’ meeting and something happened to me that I wanted to share with you. My kids attend the same school from three rooms. I don’t know what changed me in these years, but for the first time I started to look around me and I experienced something similar in my childhood: I felt alone, different again“.
“Clearly, a trans mother is something that is not yet part of what is normal in this society. if we now understand by normal what the statistics indicate “,
“Like any difference, this one is even more unique when there are very few cases. I could deal with that. My unfinished assimilation was a feeling that had no answer for me: ¿I’m just the trans mom because really few of us who, since we are women, experience the need to identify ourselves and get to know? ”, review by the host of interfering.
“Are we still so few because of this model that we are running, there is still so much repression that not all of us are breaking the norm? Would we be more if society stopped being aware of binarism?“, he asked himself.
“Unlike the’ 80s, in this school many mothers took me with them without letting me down, I made friends and I met very warm and open people who don’t care about my identity when related to me, so I can’t say nothing has changed. However, this concrete fact, which still lives on in the feeling of not being suitable for everyone, is still on my mind, ”he concluded.
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Source: Clarin
