Death is a topic that, in general, distress, concerns and above all, us generates unknowns. Julie McFadden, a nurse who works with terminally ill patients, tries, through social networks, to demystify something that, for everyone, will be inevitable.
In this case, from her TikTok account (@hospicenursejulie), she reveals the professional what happens in the last minutes of lifewho do the dying usually call and how do they deal with this moment.
What do we see when we die?
The nurse began to share her knowledge and experience on the social network, where she has more than 1.2 million followers and nearly 13 million likes.
In it, he spends his time talking with acceptance, respect and maturity on something many find a taboo subject: the death.
McFadden is often near death for his work, such as the palliative care they focus on helping the terminally ill reduce their pain and suffering.
In one post, when describing, he said his patients often tell him they see theirs loved ones who have already died before they themselves died, sent The mirror.
Also, he pointed out that their already dead relatives tell him about it comforting words AS “We’ll come looking for you soon” OR “Don’t worry, we’ll help you.”
According to her, it is very common to see dying patients friends, relatives and even old dead pets.
According to the newspaper, he assured that it happens so often that they put it in the “educational packages they give to patients and their loved ones”, but that cannot explain why this is happening.
“This happens so often that we put it in the educational packages we give to the patient and their loved ones so they understand what’s going on. But we don’t know why it happens and we can’t explain it,” she said.
He added: “It usually happens one month before the patient dies. They begin to see deceased relatives, deceased friends, old pets that are no longer there, spirits, angelswho visit them”.
The nurse indicated that only patients can see and hear them. “Sometimes it’s through a dream and sometimes they can physically see them and ask us, ‘Do you see what I see?'” he said.
Furthermore, she argued that patients “usually aren’t afraid,” but actually feel a lot “comforted” for these visions and most love it, brought back The mirror.
When a follower asked McFadden if he thought it was a hallucination, he said no, as patients normally do “quite alert and oriented” in those moments.
“I don’t know what it is,” he clarified, “it doesn’t seem like a hallucination to me because people who say it are usually quite attentive and oriented, they are usually lucid.”
And he added: “It’s not like they talk so much nonsense. Usually they are functional and logical and they ask me: ‘Why do I see my mother dead? Do you understand? Hers?’ I have seen hallucinations and what are we talking about here That’s not it. But I don’t know what it is.”
What do we regret when we die?
In a video she posted to her account some time ago and which has gone viral again, the nurse revealed what the more frequent regrets which his dying patients usually manifest, highlighted The sun.
And he showed it, he clarifies, hoping that people watching will listen to his advice and don’t complain about this recalling their lives in the last cases.
Julie McFadden responded to a follower’s question by saying: “What kind of regrets do you feel? I feel that eventually everyone will have some kind of regret.”
So, he explained that there are four big regrets that people often confess when they die. And then he detailed each of them.
1-“At the end of their days, most people regret not having appreciated their health.”
2-“Having not appreciated being alive and having enjoyed the little things”.
3- “Having worked all my life”.
4-“There is no more time with family”.
Source: Clarin
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