A girl’s devastating discovery after hearing why her father was always cold to her

A teenager turned to the social network Reddit to make a sort of catharsis for what she had just discovered and which, according to her, It left her devastated.

Complete with requests for advice, the post, which talked about the girl’s relationship with her father and her disastrous discovery, it quickly went viral generating thousands of comments and reactions.

In a psychological clinic, the 17-year-old girl said that The bond with his father has always been cold; and that it was his mother who took charge of his parental “duties”. So, currently, her mother is his support and companion.

“My mom and I did a lot of fun activities together and she did He always played with me and entertained me, which has allowed us to have a good relationship now, years later”, writes the young woman.

Meanwhile, with his father there is a barrier that he feels is insurmountable: “But every time I tried to convince my father to play with me or to do or see something with me, I’ve never been interested and told me to go play with my mother.”

“This happened practically every day. I would have liked to see him work on his car or ask him to play with me, but he always rejected me“, added the girl.

“He only did things with me on my birthday and holidays. And although he always made sure I was well fed and consoled me if I was upset, other than that he avoided me,” she wrote.

As she said, when she was still a child, the time came when she concluded that her father “he just didn’t like me”so she chose to stop asking him to spend time with her.

So, the girl said this she gave up and he did not continue to seek an explanation for his father’s attitude towards him. And so he grew up, with a mother present and a cold and distant father.

And one day, without looking for it, the answer came

Then one day, while looking for something to eat, he heard his father talking to a friend in the garden and He found out why he stayed away.

“I could hear what they were talking about from the open kitchen window, but I ignored the conversation until he said my name,” He talked about that fateful day.

“Then I listened more carefully. Basically, my dad told his friend I wanted to have a son more than a daughter. “That he never wanted a girlfriend and therefore didn’t try to build a relationship with me because of it.”

“He said he had been trying to convince my mother to have a second child to see if she could have a boy, but my mother didn’t want two children at the time, so he just ignored me when I could walk and talk and continued that way throughout my life,” he continued.

“So he could focus on other things and let my mother raise mea,” he said.

I need advice

The young woman said in her post that since then she no longer knows what to do. She didn’t say anything to her mother about her nor did she confront her father about her. As asked users for advice about what to do next: should he talk to his mother or confront his father?

And the advice came in by the thousands. One person suggested he talk to his mother: “If what she said was true, if it were me I probably wouldn’t try to have a relationship with him. What kind of father decides” reject your child because of their genderOR?”

Another person commented, “He’s been wishing all this time for you to be a boy. Tell him you’ve been wishing all this time for him to be a real father. I guess They were both disappointed.“.

A third person advised him: “Talk to your mother about what you heard him say and how he made you feel all these years. “I’m sure your mother will see for herself.”

And you, what would you do?