She is a hospice nurse and reveals what we regret when we die. Photo: video capture
Julie McFadden she is a nurse at terminally ill. From his place of assistance he accompanies them so that they may have a dignified and peaceful death.
But what’s more, from her TikTok account (@hospicenursejulie) she is dedicated to talking with acceptance, respect and maturity about something as painful as it is inevitable for all of us: Death.
It is that the woman, who lives in the United States and works in the special care area (where the terminally ill are transferred), lives with her on a daily basis.
That is why, through his messages, he seeks demystify and make certain situations visible that occur (and will continue to occur) inevitably.
His intention is, he explains, to “educate” about death sharing the experiences he has lived, lives and will continue to live as part of his daily activity.
From her TikTok account, Julie McFadden speaks with maturity and acceptance of death. Photo: video capture
What four things do we regret?
In a video she posted on her account a few months ago and has now gone viral again, Julie revealed what are the most frequent regrets that his dying patients usually express, highlighted The sun.
And he showed it, he clarifies, with the hope that people watching him listen to his advice Y do not complain remembering their lives in the last cases.
The nurse answered a follower’s question who said: “What kind of regrets do you feel? I feel that eventually everyone will have some sort of regret.”
Then, Julie explained that they are there four main regrets that people often confess when they die. And then he detailed each of them.
1- “At the end of their days, most people repent not having appreciated your health“.
2- “Not having appreciated being alive and having enjoyed the little things“.
3- “Have Working lifetime”.
4- “Do not have more time with the family“.
Enjoying every moment and sharing more time with family are some of the reasons for regret. Photo: Shutterstock
From the confessions of her patients, the nurse learned to “Enjoy the momentLive the present, be grateful no longer take your good health and the little things of living for granted ».
“Don’t waste your life working unnecessarily.or do only what is necessary. Spend time with those you lovenot necessarily family members, but those you love and who make you feel loved, ”recommended Julie, who became a hospice nurse after working in intensive care for nine years.
After watching the video, his followers appreciated the advice. One user wrote: “Thanks, I needed to hear it”.
“Madam, this was inspiring. Thank you for sharing your knowledge when it wasn’t necessary. Appreciated.”another commented. Y “I needed to hear it today. Thanks Julie.”said a third.
The truth about death
But Julie also tries to demystify and make visible certain situations that occur and, although they seem “abnormal”, they are not.
Before dying, there are obvious changes in breathing, skin color, terminal secretions and fever, he listed.
The nurse also shared what people usually say just before they die. Illustrative photo: Shutterstock
“They are normal and they are not painful or uncomfortable. Our bodies take care of themselves at the end of life; the less we intervene, the better“, detailed from his point of view on the death process.
Among the revelations he made, one in particular raised expectations and even generated amazement among his followers: what people usually say just before they die.
“There’s something most people say before they die and it’s usually ‘I love you’,” she revealed. As many people “call their mom or dad, who are usually already dead,” she added.
In his account on the social network, McFadden accumulates more than 800,000 followers and 6.8 million “likes” in his posts in which he educates about death and its trials.
Source: Clarin
