He invited his father’s wife to his wedding but imposed unusual conditions on her to attend

A woman turned to social media to let off steam; or perhaps to wash away the guilt, she who knows her. The truth is that her story, about the attitude he had towards his father’s current partnerit went viral and sparked the debate.

In Redditthe woman, who did not identify herself, said she was getting married and that, after much reflection, she decided that he would invite his father and his current partner at her wedding but under unusual conditions.

In particular, if your father’s wife wants to attend the ceremony, she must strictly follow the strict rules regarding her dress and the absolute ban on appearing in photos that they are taken

With obvious guilt, the woman asked if I was very numb to his father’s partner. And the debate was armed between those who defend that position and those who criticize it,

A loveless story with a predictable ending

In her publication, the woman delved into it the relationship of their parents, the subsequent separation and finally the arrival of the new couple. Not too different from many others, to be honest.

“My parents were never happy”condemned the woman. “I think they got married because they thought that’s what people do, but they never thought they weren’t compatible,” she added.

“Growing up, my father always seemed depressed. He was a good father, but he always seemed very sad. “

“He asked my mother several times to do it they divorced and she always refused. He knew he was cheating on her, but she didn’t care, “she wrote.

She didn’t want to get a divorce. so would people say and because he didn’t want to cut down on his lifestyle at all, “he explained.

The woman said that when her younger sister turned 18, her father “finally” He decided to leave his mother for another woman.

Suspicion and acceptance of the young attractive girl

“It was all pretty cliché. It was 15 years younger, beautiful and my father is rich“said the woman.

“I was devastated and humiliated“She explained.” Honestly, I hate her a little bit just for being the other woman and because for my mom, who is very insecure, my dad left her for a younger, more beautiful woman made it worse. “.

“But my dad is so happy that I’m trying to forgive him. It’s been six years, they’re married and I know she’s here to stay. “

Reactions on the net and weight of the mother

On the networks, where the story went viral, comments were for everything. “Many people have told me I shouldn’t invite her“, While the same writes that” I am a bad daughter “.

“Your father has done nothing wrong“wrote one user.” Your mom kept him in an unhappy relationship because she didn’t want people to gossip and she didn’t want to give up on her lifestyle. She kept your father miserable and depressed for selfish reasons, “she added.

“I’m trying to be understanding then is invited but he is not allowed to be in the images “, reiterated the woman.

“My mother doesn’t want her desperately there And she cried and blamed me. “

“My mom’s self-esteem sucks. and she has a lot of trouble accepting her body.

Unusual conditions and the reproach of the father

“I told my dad that his wife could come if she wore navy blue so she didn’t stand out and I suppose to make it less beautiful and that my mother doesn’t feel that bad, “she said of the conditions she has to meet to participate.

“My father told me I was unfair and what he wasn’t thinking about his feelings, “he said.

“He also told me that his wife I’d agree if I could wear black because apparently he hates navy blue.

“It’s my wedding and I seem to be nice to let her comeand he has a lot of extravagant events where he can do whatever he wants. “

“Don’t be the most beautiful woman the room won’t kill her for one night. My dad still feels like I’m numb. “

“I am giving priority to my mother over my father. And I guess too I’m punishing her for being beautiful“, hill.